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This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.
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Oct 26, 1998
You may think I'm rather'messed up' with these questions, but here it goes.I am a 31 year old male and have been dating the same woman for over a year now. With very few exceptions, it may take me 30 minutes to an hour of intercourse before I reach an orgasm. And, I'm usually not as hard as my girlfriend believes that I should be. She's convinced that I am thinking to much - not letting go. Once we begin intercourse, I become harder. But, at times, it just goes away. I sometimes think...
Sep 28, 1998
I really appreciate your site and I hope you can help me with my problem. My husband has recently introduced me to vibrators and hot tub jets. I enjoyed these things, but I feel a real sense of guilt when I orgasm in this manner rather than'with' him. He doesn't have a problem with it, but I sometimes wonder if it isn't just a little too kinky. I also wonder about the safety and whether or not these things can cause problems further on down the road either sexually or physically. I would...
Sep 21, 1998
Dr. Love, My name is Lisa and my problem is somewhat complex. My boyfriend(9 mths) and I were discussing transvestites and gays. We are on opposites ends of the spectrum when it comes to anything that has to do with this topic. For the record: He believes men and women should be together and thats it. I, however believe that love conquers all and a persons sexuality doesn't matter. I understand, from the nature of his upbringing, how his opinions are formed. So, neither of us is right...
Sep 14, 1998
I am engaged and been sexual with my fiancee. I found out about a year ago that I had genital warts. I have not told my fiancee yet and don't know if I should in fear that he would leave me. I was considering just going to the doctor with him and acting like I never knew that I had genital warts until then. Would this be wrong of me? Should I tell him? If so how do I go about telling him?PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aug 31, 1998
Dear Dr. Love, My boyfriend informed me a few weeks ago, after having been together for over a year, that he is gay - not bisexual, but gay. He apparently felt the need to share this information with me, since it has been our policy to disclose everything to one another. Obviously, he has not been entirely truthful toward me this past year. His rationale for this lie was the notion that if he had told me, he would have been deprived of the best year of his life. He still claims to be in love...
Aug 24, 1998
Hi, I am a 17 year old male and i have been having SM fantasies ever since I was seven. I am capable of enjoying regular sex but i greatly prefer BDSM. I play the dominant role in this type of encounter. Some say that partners switch roles from time to time but i would hate to be submissive. Anyway, I was wondering whether or not I was born with this sexuality or if it was created by some past experience.
Aug 24, 1998
Dear Dr. Love,I, first off, would like to applaud you for the wonderful service that you are providing to people that, may otherwise, be unable to find someone or be unable to afford the services that you are providing. In doing some research, I happened to stumble upon your site and was astonished to find that someone is actually trying to help people and doing it for free. Thank you for all your time and effort. I apologize for the story part being so long, but I thought that is needed to...
Jul 20, 1998
MY GIRLFRIEND CONSTANTLY PEE'S DURING SEX. SHE MAY PEE ANYWHERE FROM 5 TO 10 TIMES DURING INTERCOURSE. BUT WHENEVER WE TAKE A BREAK AND SHE TRIES TO USE THE RESTROOM NOTHING COMES OUT!!! BUT AS SOON AS WE START BACK SHE BACK PEEING! SHE SAYS IF FEEL AS IF IT MIGHT BE AN ORGASM, BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN IT'S PEE!!! AM I GETTING CLOSE TO THE MAGIC SPOTT!!