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This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.
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Sep 21, 1998
Dr. Love, My name is Lisa and my problem is somewhat complex. My boyfriend(9 mths) and I were discussing transvestites and gays. We are on opposites ends of the spectrum when it comes to anything that has to do with this topic. For the record: He believes men and women should be together and thats it. I, however believe that love conquers all and a persons sexuality doesn't matter. I understand, from the nature of his upbringing, how his opinions are formed. So, neither of us is right...
Sep 14, 1998
I am engaged and been sexual with my fiancee. I found out about a year ago that I had genital warts. I have not told my fiancee yet and don't know if I should in fear that he would leave me. I was considering just going to the doctor with him and acting like I never knew that I had genital warts until then. Would this be wrong of me? Should I tell him? If so how do I go about telling him?PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aug 31, 1998
Dear Dr. Love, My boyfriend informed me a few weeks ago, after having been together for over a year, that he is gay - not bisexual, but gay. He apparently felt the need to share this information with me, since it has been our policy to disclose everything to one another. Obviously, he has not been entirely truthful toward me this past year. His rationale for this lie was the notion that if he had told me, he would have been deprived of the best year of his life. He still claims to be in love...
Aug 24, 1998
Hi, I am a 17 year old male and i have been having SM fantasies ever since I was seven. I am capable of enjoying regular sex but i greatly prefer BDSM. I play the dominant role in this type of encounter. Some say that partners switch roles from time to time but i would hate to be submissive. Anyway, I was wondering whether or not I was born with this sexuality or if it was created by some past experience.
Aug 24, 1998
Dear Dr. Love,I, first off, would like to applaud you for the wonderful service that you are providing to people that, may otherwise, be unable to find someone or be unable to afford the services that you are providing. In doing some research, I happened to stumble upon your site and was astonished to find that someone is actually trying to help people and doing it for free. Thank you for all your time and effort. I apologize for the story part being so long, but I thought that is needed to...
Jul 20, 1998
MY GIRLFRIEND CONSTANTLY PEE'S DURING SEX. SHE MAY PEE ANYWHERE FROM 5 TO 10 TIMES DURING INTERCOURSE. BUT WHENEVER WE TAKE A BREAK AND SHE TRIES TO USE THE RESTROOM NOTHING COMES OUT!!! BUT AS SOON AS WE START BACK SHE BACK PEEING! SHE SAYS IF FEEL AS IF IT MIGHT BE AN ORGASM, BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN IT'S PEE!!! AM I GETTING CLOSE TO THE MAGIC SPOTT!!
Jul 13, 1998
I met a man I really care for two months ago. And, two weeks ago I had sexual intercourse with him for the first time. Keep in mind I had been abstinent for over a year prior to this. My question - after having sexual intercourse with a man are females known to cry? I ask this because after intercouse I lied in bed crying for about a good half-hour ( he was not aware). This has only happened once, but does it mean there are other emotional problems connected to my sexual experience?...
Jul 6, 1998
I'm seventeen and have been going out with my first real boyfriend for about a month. He doesn't live near me but we get together pretty regularly. We met at a party and he came to my junior prom. We had an amazing time, and I started to find out what kissing really means. I've been getting to know him better and have found him to be a wonderfully caring and mature person whom I'm attracted to. He respects me and would never push me into anything physical. However, I can't seem to get as...