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Relationship Advice

This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.

There are three main categories of advice. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in other categories:

Relationships Dating

If you don't find the answer you're looking for in these advice columns, feel free to Ask Doctor Love your own question!

Jan 25, 1999
Sex Advice
Dear Dr. Love, I am a 22-year old, married woman. I was a virgin until marriage. The first time my husband and I had sex, my hymen broke. I started bleeding very badly. That same day, I started my period. It scared me. Should I be worried? After my period, the second time we had sex, I bled again. I didn't understand it that time. It really scared me. Can you please help me? Thank you.
Jan 25, 1999
Sex Advice
I am 32 years old and I am currently seeing a very attractive 30 year old female. My problem is snowballing and becoming more and more problematic I am having trouble getting and maintaining erections with my girlfriend. I have no problem masturbating and can do so 5 to 7 times a day. My problem occurs when I try to make love to my girlfriend. I have a very large penis (9) and she is very small, 97lbs. On our first attempt to make love I was very nervous that I would hurt her and as a...
Jan 11, 1999
Sex Advice
My wife and I have been married since '95, but have been living together about eight years. We are both 29. We have a 15 month old very well behaved little boy. Our sex life has been a little less than regular (not just since we had the boy) and I am starting to get extremely aggravated. I am a very sexual person, (I think about sex a lot), and I would like to have sex with my wife more than once a month, which is what we are averaging. In fact, I would enjoy about once a day. We have talked...
Jan 4, 1999
Sex Advice
Dear Dr Love, I think I am going crazy. I am a 59 year old woman married 33 years. I never had orgasm by intercourse. All of a sudden I want sex 3 times a day. My husband has had prostrate surgery, and even tho he has viagra, is scared to use it. Consequently, I have been masturbating myself into orgasm, but 1 orgasm is just the beginning. It seems as tho I could masturbate 24 hours a day, and have results. Every time he leaves the house if for more than a few minutes, I masturbate...
Dec 21, 1998
Sex Advice
Hello!During foreplay my boyfriend swears that he can taste something sweet comming from my nipples when he is sucking on them... I am not pregnant, nor have I ever had any kids. What could this be? Is it his imagination?Thanks much!
Dec 21, 1998
Sex Advice
I am still technically a virgin. When my boyfriend penetrates me with his hand, sometimes it hurts when he goes in really deep. Is this normal?
Dec 21, 1998
Sex Advice
My question involves coping with a sexual mistake I have been having oral sex with my boyfriend who i recently broke up with. Last time we were together, we were intense to the point where he fingered me and I think he de virginized me. Now Im paranoid that when i meet the right guy, he won't believe that i never had sexual intercourse and that he'll be disgusted by me. Am i overeacting? I need advice on how to deal. :)
Dec 7, 1998
Sex Advice
Dr. Love, is there such a thing as a ' normal' sex drive? My boyfriend can't go more than a couple of days without getting really bothered if we don't have sex, but I don't really want it that often - particularly if I'm very busy and have a lot going on. I still want to cuddle and spend time with him, but if we go several days, or even a week or two when I'm really tired or busy, it doesn't bother me. He had a bad childhood and seems to have a real need for the physical connection. I, on...
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