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This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.

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Aug 24, 2014
Sex Advice
Thanks for taking my question. I am a 47 year old male and very much in love with my wife.  We are both very sexually active and she pleases me very much, with one exception.  When she performs oral sex she won't let me finish in her mouth.  I really don't care if she swallows my semen or not, I just would like to finish in her mouth with out pulling away, it just kills the orgasm when you stop and pull it out.  We had this discussion many years ago and she stated to me that...
Jun 9, 2014
Sex Advice
I'm 30 years old, and grew up in a conservative south Asian culture, where dating and premarital sex are frowned upon, and in general kept secret from the older generation. I've been rejected twice by women whom I've been attracted to (and who've mildly flirted with me), but didn't want to be asked out. I've always felt that they didn't give me a decent shot and didn't get to know me well. Also I'm a bit on the darker side complexion wise, and while I think I'm pretty handsome and good looking...
May 13, 2014
Sex Advice
Dear Dr Love, I am about to get married and I found out today the man I am marrying has been using Viagra since we met. I'm not quiet sure how to feel about this. We havent had a lot of 'physical time' together as we live in different countries (even though we have known each other for more than 2 years). I will be with him in a couple of weeks and even though he said it has nothing to do with how much he desires me it has affected my ego. I found out from a script, and he told me that we...
Apr 21, 2014
Sex Advice
Hello; My name is Derek. I must say that your site is quite impressive-lots of good info, but I could not find anything about the subject I have in question, and that is this. First of all, I must say that I know that I am not gay or bisexual.I have never had a girlfriend like the one I have now. She is a physical therapist and aerobics instructor, and I am an engineer. I am 25,  she is 24. Her name is Jessica. We have been together for about 3 years, and in those two years, only have...
Mar 25, 2014
Sex Advice
My wife and I are in our mid 40s.  We have been married for 17 years.  My wife used to want sex very often but several years ago, she had a total hysterectomy.  Since then, she says she has no interest in sex.  At times we have not been intimate for 6-9 months.  I love her with all my heart and want to experience the best sex life possible with her.  I would do anything with her and I have a strong desire to give and receive all forms of pleasure with her. What I...
Feb 25, 2014
Sex Advice
Hi,  Can you please tell me why when I orgasm I urinate?  Thanks.
Feb 25, 2014
Sex Advice
*I have been with my Bf for 5 yrs he is 31 & I'm 25...When we first met it took him 8 months to have sex with me. then after that we did it maybe 5 times a month if that.. Now all these yrs later and it's 1-3 times a month... I feel like he has never really had a sex drive but now I just feel like he's not longer attraced to me . When we do have sex it's me asking for it and it's always him on top and lasts only a few min. I know alot of it has to do with the way i feel about myself...
Sep 30, 2013
Sex Advice
Hello,   I stumbled upon your website while searching for an answer to my condition. I am a 25 year old man and a virgin. I have had brief affairs in the past but none of them led to any physical intimacyAn intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship. It can be defined by these characteristics: enduring behavioral interdependence, repeated interactions, emotional...(Click for full definition.): I haven't even kissed, to be exact. My primary problem is that I am...
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