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May 11, 2015
I began dating a man who has been legally separated from his wife for almost 2 years. We've only dated for a couple of months, but since the beginning of our relationship, he would "one-up" me using his wife. Example, I told him I have a bachelor's. He would respond with,"That's it? Well, my wife has two bachelor's...." It was anything I can do, his wife can do better. It went further and involved my family and her family. I had always addressed the issue and he would back...
Jan 21, 2015
I have been on my own for about 18yrs i had two great loves in my life both ended not on a good note. I feel that i am unable to find someone. there is nobody i am intrested in i feel like something is missing in me, i don"t feel lonely or wishing i had someone i am ok on my own but it would be nice to have somebody that loved me or me love them, or am i ment to spend my days partner less. any advice would be great something i can do becasue i feel its my fault thank you
Oct 21, 2014
Hi Dr. Love! I am hoping to gain some insight into something that has been perplexing me for a couple years. My job requires me to doa lot of driving during the day, and there are days in which I see more than 20 headlights out, usually on my left. Often one right after the other, or one coming toward me and one in my rear view mirror! Some days I see more than 20, and some days it is only a few. I have tried to understand this message, be conscious of what I...
Jun 22, 2014
Hello my name is Georgie , im a wildland firefighter from southern california , im 26 years old. my ex girlfriend who was my very first girlfriend i ever had in my life when i was in the 6th grade, we dated for awhile and lost contact. we met backup in the summer of 2009 , dated for 2 weeks and she dumps me because she said she needed to focus on college and didnt want any distractions. She met a new guy a month later who she was with for 2 1/2 years and had a babby boy with and they are...
Jun 9, 2014
Late last year, I found myself longing for a great woman to come into my life, someone hopefully to marry. So I said a prayer to the higher powers and at the begining of this year I met a woman online. I had been dating around for a year and a half, and have had 3 long term relationships that were 2 years plus, but in the end we just weren't meant to be. This lady I met online asked me out, and we hit it off on our first date in a big way! We found we shared many interests, our main goals for...
Jun 9, 2014
Dr Love, I hope this message finds you in the best of health and happiness. My girlfriend of 3 years (unofficially), 1 year (officially) said that she still loves me so much, but wants a break or space now. And or that she doesn't want to be in a relationship right now. She says she doesn't know why she feels this way. She says that she sees and feels I am still making efforts to make her happy. She still sees and knows i love and care for her deeply, but at this moment she doesn...
May 4, 2014
I am currently in a really loving relationship. We've only been together a year and a half, but it's been a really great relationship. My boyfriend is sweet, amazing, kind, loving, and very protective. I worked really hard to be with him, and I love him more than I could ever describe. However, recently, the guy that I used to be completely in love with made his way back into my mind. I ran into him while I was out on a run with my mother, and he saw me and waved and smiled. I barely gave...
May 4, 2014
My boyfriend and I have been having anal sex for over 3 1/2 years we broke up for 9 months and started all over again. We had anal sex for 7 months straight I would say 5 times a week for 5 to 7 hours at a time. I Didn't see him for a week and when we had sex he said my butt is wider and deeper and accused me of cheatingSee Infidelity. on him which I never did I took a lie detector test and everything proved I didnt cheat and he keeps saying what happened to your butt and I keep saying I didnt...
Mar 25, 2014
About 18 months ago....I met and dated a man (we're both late 40's, young minded, attractive!) for several months, we clicked on so many levels, humor and interests and had so much fun together. We both then had to relocate to different places for work and visited each other a few times, which was wonderful, fun, sincere and happy, him suggestions of cities we could visit together. But on the last day of an amazing vist to him, though he had conveyed we'd meet again and often, I felt...
Feb 8, 2014
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 9 months to this day. Everything was perfect, we made each other really happy and i feel in love with him. When we started dating, he would talk about his female 'friend' and say that we are very alike and we would be good friends. 3 months into our relationship, he got drunk with her and told me her bit her neck. So from then i knew something was going on between them and told him to not see her outside school again, but they could obviously...