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May 11, 2015
I began dating a man who has been legally separated from his wife for almost 2 years. We've only dated for a couple of months, but since the beginning of our relationship, he would "one-up" me using his wife. Example, I told him I have a bachelor's. He would respond with,"That's it? Well, my wife has two bachelor's...." It was anything I can do, his wife can do better. It went further and involved my family and her family. I had always addressed the issue and he would back...
May 4, 2014
I am currently in a really loving relationship. We've only been together a year and a half, but it's been a really great relationship. My boyfriend is sweet, amazing, kind, loving, and very protective. I worked really hard to be with him, and I love him more than I could ever describe. However, recently, the guy that I used to be completely in love with made his way back into my mind. I ran into him while I was out on a run with my mother, and he saw me and waved and smiled. I barely gave...
May 4, 2014
My boyfriend and I have been having anal sex for over 3 1/2 years we broke up for 9 months and started all over again. We had anal sex for 7 months straight I would say 5 times a week for 5 to 7 hours at a time. I Didn't see him for a week and when we had sex he said my butt is wider and deeper and accused me of cheatingSee Infidelity. on him which I never did I took a lie detector test and everything proved I didnt cheat and he keeps saying what happened to your butt and I keep saying I didnt...
Mar 25, 2014
About 18 months ago....I met and dated a man (we're both late 40's, young minded, attractive!) for several months, we clicked on so many levels, humor and interests and had so much fun together. We both then had to relocate to different places for work and visited each other a few times, which was wonderful, fun, sincere and happy, him suggestions of cities we could visit together. But on the last day of an amazing vist to him, though he had conveyed we'd meet again and often, I felt...
Mar 2, 2014
Hi Dr. Love. I've been married for 6 years, and have an 11 mo. old girl. Our marriage is in serious trouble. As much as we've shared, I just cannot stand to be around him most of the time. We've undergone a tremendous amount of stress in the past year - we bought a house that was too expensive for us (he insisted), I've lost three jobs in two years, and we're running out of $$. But before all of this, we were on rocky ground anyway. He's emotionally unavailable, and stays that way despite my...
Feb 8, 2014
Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 9 months to this day. Everything was perfect, we made each other really happy and i feel in love with him. When we started dating, he would talk about his female 'friend' and say that we are very alike and we would be good friends. 3 months into our relationship, he got drunk with her and told me her bit her neck. So from then i knew something was going on between them and told him to not see her outside school again, but they could obviously...
Jan 5, 2014
Dr. Jamie Turndorf, Hello, not sure where to even start with you. I am severely depressed and let's just say I am ready to hurt myself.. I thought I met the love of my life 2 years ago.. We were introduced by a mutual friend.. It took me awhile to open up to this man because I was hurt in the past and I did not want it to happen again.. I am an attractive woman who works and is independent.. I come from a good family with morals and values proud to say that I am 40 years old never had a one...
Nov 4, 2013
Dear Dr. Love! There’s so much I want to tell you, and many times that I’ve wanted to write you, so finally, here it goes. I’ll start off by saying that I love you so much, and there are so many times that I think “wow, she’s almost like a kind of soul mate but we’ve never even met!” I think it’s amazing the way you help people, and you are one of the things that inspired me to get into counselling for youth. I’ve been listening to your show for over a year now, I’ve listened to every show, and...
Aug 12, 2013
I was in a relationship with my ex for almost 2 years, we broke up because things start to change between us. He talk to some girls in a flirtatous way and stop spending as much time as he was when we first started the relationship, which that we meet everyday. We got into a agruments and we broke up in a sudden. To fill up the void of my sadness I went in a relationship with my current boyfriend who is very caring and love me a lot. Many times I tell myself that my relationship with my ex is a...
Jul 9, 2013
Hi dr love,i wont say im in a relationship with this guy cos he didnt propose to me, his my ex.He’s 32yrs and im 30,he was in a relationship which ended around august 2012.We suddenly met and we shared our history whereby we decided to be friends.Until one day he told me if he sees me with another guy he would get cross.So there was a day that this guy was poured by a boiling water by his girlfriend and while at work i received a call from him that his being admitted,while i was arranging...