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Sep 3, 2007
Hi! My boyfriend broke up with me. He said he was still in love with the last person he was with before me. He was in prison for 2 years and she is still in prison. He has only been out for 6 months and we were together for 4 months. He started playing world of warcraft (online computer game) and slowly I was seeing him less and less and then he told me he was still in love with her. Do you think it's the game or he is really still in love with her? We had a good relationship. I am so confused...
May 26, 2007
Dr. Turndorf, I really need your help. I've been in a relationship with a woman for almost a year now who has been in abusive relationship (physical/ emotional) in the past. I really love her and want this relationship to work out. She has a child with one of the of the abusers. She doesn't quite know how to pull away from him. He's using the child as the bait to continue his control. I did some research for her in the past and she recognized the symptoms/patterns. She changes her ways after...
May 26, 2007
My boyfriend and I have been dating now 9 months. Last week, he had off work one day so I had asked him if he would like to go to lunch with me that day. He told me that he had already made lunch plans with someone else. When I had asked him who, he said his ex! Now, he said that he wasn't going to tell me because he didn't know how I would react to him going out with her. I would have been really mad if I had found out afterward that he had gone to lunch with her without telling me, but I told...
May 14, 2007
Hello, OK I have a question. I like this guy named David. He says he likes me too. But he's always telling me that he has to get over his ex who he's been with for 3 years and they have a baby together. He was staying with me for about a month then all of a sudden he started staying with his ex again but still calls me every day at least twice and comes over to visit but doesn't stay. What can I do? I really want to be with him.
Apr 16, 2007
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. He's 27 and I am 20. Although there is an age difference, he asked me to move in. Well last week he tells me that he's not ready to move in together. He had a past relationship that lasted four years and said it ruined their relationship. I know I am still young in years, but I am worried if he will ever be 'Ready' when it comes to the 'commitment'?
Mar 12, 2007
My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now and things are going very well. We are both 25. The other day we were out when she pulled out her wallet to pay for something, she pulled out a photo of her ex-boyfriend. They had dated for 3 years. They have been broken up for a year now. The photo was hidden inside one of the wallet's small pockets. She said she forgot it was in there. When I asked her what she was going to do with it, she said 'I don't know'. The next day she told...
Jan 29, 2007
Hi I am a 16 year old girl who lives in PA. I have finally found someone who I truly care about and I opened up to him and told him everything about me. No matter how hard it was for me to tell him I did, but I met him over the internet and we talk every night on the phone. He is 18 years old and lives in CA. I've known him for a few years now but we just recently started talking a month ago and we started dating a month after that. After we started dating things have changed between us. I've...
Jan 22, 2007
Hi, I am 23 years old. I recently started talking to this girl who is 20 years old. When she and I started talking she had just broken up with her boyfriend of 8 months. Since this, we have talked a lot, several hours a day, mostly on the phone, and we really get along well. She has made it clear that she is interested in me as a potential boyfriend, but at the same time doesn't want to push things too fast because of her breakup, which is understandable. Well, our...
Dec 18, 2006
I have been seeing this guy for 3 months, we both seperated from our partners 3/4 months ago. We have spent every minute together and when he is at work its phone calls all the time. We both have the same views, warped mind, interests, everything we are so good together, but his ex is very controlling and she is physically violent towards him. She keeps pulling him back in and saying she wants it to work but he is not allowed to sleep there with her. We both enjoy each other 's company he...
Dec 4, 2006
Dear Dr. Turndorf,I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year and five months. Recently we've been having problems. I found out that her ex-boyfriend that she only went out with for three months in the past had called her at her job to talk to her again or whatever his intensions are. But my girlfriend gave him her cell number. She is the type of person that thinks that talking to any guy from her past is ok. She never loved her ex. I am her first love, so she considers her ex-boyfriend as...