Feb 17, 2013
my girlfriend broke up with me over a year and half but now our break up was really bad, and i blame my self for some of the problems we had before she broke up with me, but now after one and half years i try contact he by calling and she refused to answer but instead she sms me saying if i miss her or i wanted to play with her, and i replied and said i do miss her but am not playing with her, and she said she will never forgive or forget what i did to her and she was using words like this (...
Feb 5, 2013
*I really like a girl, I play tennis a lot and she does too. Occasionally i see her at the tennis club. I really want to get closer to her but I do not see her often enough. * *How do i get her to notice me a bit more and think more of me?* *Thanks.*
Dec 2, 2012
I am a 30 year old male, and I have had a problem with premature ejaculation all of my sexual life. I have just recently gotten in to a relationship and it started out that I could control it a little bit but now it seems the more I do it the worse it gets. I have started having problems obtaining an erection because I am so worried about trying to control myself. Then when I get an erection I seem to ejaculate real quick because now I am trying to concentrate on getting an erection...
Dec 2, 2012
Dear Dr. Love, I recently had an incredible sexual experience with my girlfriend. We rested for a half hour or so after we had both had incredible orgasms. After that,'went for it' again. She began to give me oral sex. It was an incredible feeling. But, I couldn't come. I was very hard and at times, it felt like I was about to. But, I never did. As a matter of fact, she has done that 3 or 4 times, and I have never had an orgasm. I seem to have orgasms fine during intercourse. But, an oral...
Nov 27, 2012
Hi, My issue is that I've never really had a normal sex life because of a deep seeded fear that I will not be able to obtain an erection. It's happened to me on more than one occasion with a new partner. I've read in another one of your advise columns that the hormones produced by fear are incompatable with those of sexual arousal. It makes perfect sense. Every time Im in a situation where sex would be initiated with someone Iam not 100% comfortable with I panic and try to avoid it at all...
Jul 17, 2012
hi, basically iv known this girl 3 years now, and been together on and off it. we both know we want to be with each other, and she says herself that she has not met anyone like me, and i am the person she wants to marry and be with, but she had a long last relaitionship before me, which is making her hesitant with everything, she feels right now she cant give me what i give her and she feels like its unfair, what cn i say to her to make this go forward as we are stuck with what to do, we both...
Feb 22, 2012
I am single, 22 & know this guy Jin (22) as he is my dad's friend's son. We visit each others' places often in family meetings etc. and our families are quite informal and close. He has signaled a few times earlier that he is interested in me. I like him a lot but haven't reciprocated. Last week, my parents were outta city & Jin was at my place. After dinner, I somehow lost my control and had sex with him the whole night. Since then, I've been feeling very depressed & highly...
Oct 2, 2011
Hi Dr. Love, As soon as I meet a man who I find to be compatible with me, I fall quickly. I mean thinking "he's the one!" almost immediately! I also am very authentic so I say what I want and how I feel. I think this scares guys off after about 2 dates I quit hearing from them? If I do nothing and ignore texts, phone calls, etc. they keep calling and texting! What's the deal? I am not into playing games, i'm 32 years old and ready to settle down again! In need of some...
Jun 3, 2011
I met a guy 4 years ago on web and we've been chatting with each other. He lives in aus and I live in hong kong. We just finally met in person in this january as he came to visit hk. we spent 4 days together and it was like heaven. we did have a lot of fun. he plans to visit me in hk soon,also i will go to visit him in aus in oct. but recently he told me that we cant be boyfriend and girlfriend now as we are in different places plus he has 2 more years until he finishes in aus (btw, hes 28...
Feb 16, 2010
I'm 15 years old and have just fallen in love with a handsome guy. We've been in love for 3 months, but haven't had sex yet. My friends tell me I must move fast or else I'll lose him. We have never spoken about sex. What must i do? Is he going to dump me for another girl?