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Sep 28, 2015
I am a 22 you male virgin who has never had a girkfriend. I worry that this is a bad thing and will only lead to rejection when found out. I had a troubled start to life and when most people my age where starting to become sexaul active I was developing depression and anxiety. My mental health has improved greatly and I have a good job but I still feel like my lack of experience will be a instant turn off. I never had affection as a child soo sex is only secondary to me. I'm looking for love...
Feb 17, 2015
Hey! I'm in high school and there is this boy I've been liking since November! We have been texting for about 4 months now! I know he likes me and he knows I like him! We really click and we can have conversations for hours over the phone! One problem we have......we have only hung out once and it was in a group setting!!! I know he is a VERY shy guy but still..... I ask if he wants to hang out and he always want to but when the time gets close to us hanging out he backs out last minute. For...
Jul 6, 2014
Dear Doctor Love, I'm a 16 year old girl. My boyfriend and I are in a relationship for 7 months. According to him, he's in love with me since 7th grade. But I fell in love with him in 11th grade as he made me feel so happy all the time and we were very compatible and comfortable with each other.. During our first month, he was so sweet. I never saw him mad or angry until our second month. I used to be a social type of person, had so many friends. Mostly boys. I was pretty...
Jul 6, 2014
I went to see the lad I love on Wednesday morning and when he got to his house he was still in bed, so I went up to go wake him and he looked gorgeous but now I'm beating myself up cos I wish I had snuggled up to him and now I'm feeling down cos I only spent an hr with him cos he was busy but we walked back to mine. But I just wish he could be mine and it's getting it's all I want, cos all I wanted to do today was just get into his bed and cuddle him and hold hands when we were...
Jul 1, 2014
It's been a month and ten days since my ex and I broke up. He broke up with me because he felt he wasn't ready for the relationship despite his strong feelings for me (he's a very insecure person when it comes to love, kind of like the type of guy who wants his independence but won't let you let him go?), and then I told him that we should stop everything because I was starting to feel like he was going to hurt me and that I wasn't okay with that. He asked me to be friends with him but honestly...
Jul 1, 2014
Hi Dr. Turndorf, I have listened you your program through Podcast and absolutely feel that you are so understanding, I love listening to your program as it gives all the insight about relationship which our parent never taught us when we were young and all that we learned from was their worry, anxiety. We know that they love us very much but did not explain why they did what they did or said what they said to their children or they spouse. After several week of despair decided to write this...
Jun 9, 2014
Late last year, I found myself longing for a great woman to come into my life, someone hopefully to marry. So I said a prayer to the higher powers and at the begining of this year I met a woman online. I had been dating around for a year and a half, and have had 3 long term relationships that were 2 years plus, but in the end we just weren't meant to be. This lady I met online asked me out, and we hit it off on our first date in a big way! We found we shared many interests, our main goals for...
May 13, 2014
Hi Love Doctor, mine would be quite a long story and really thank you for the patience and time you took to read everything. :) here it goes... I got to know my girlfriend in school, we were very loving when we first got together, after being together for around 2months, her mum starts to disapprove our relationship as her mum thinks that my feelings for her daughter aren't real and that I do not love her. What made my girlfriend's mum to have the thought could be this: "One day, I was...
May 4, 2014
Three years ago, I met and fell in love with a married man. I was married too at the time. We both talked about leaving our spouses and getting married to each other. I had been having major problems with my ex-husband being an alcoholic; we tried to help him out, but the problem remained. He married his wife after 6 months of dating even though he wasn't in love with her because whe became pregnant. He did what he thought was right at the time. ...
Feb 8, 2014
Hey Doc, First of all thank you for taking the time to read this question. I will try to keep it brief for you. Ok so I've been in love with my best friend for awhile now. 6 months ago I told him I liked him and he seemed very sorry about it when he told me he liked someone else. That was kind of a surprise for me at the time, but when looking back on it I could see why. The girl was also my friend and I knew to be a good sport and let it be. Unfortunately for him, she didn't like him the same...