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Feb 8, 2014
Hey Doc, First of all thank you for taking the time to read this question. I will try to keep it brief for you. Ok so I've been in love with my best friend for awhile now. 6 months ago I told him I liked him and he seemed very sorry about it when he told me he liked someone else. That was kind of a surprise for me at the time, but when looking back on it I could see why. The girl was also my friend and I knew to be a good sport and let it be. Unfortunately for him, she didn't like him the same...
Oct 14, 2013
My wife and I have been together a total of 8 years. There were a few rough spots where one or the other of us may have been going through something and our communication dropped off, leaving her feeling unappreciated or unloved. There were three instances that stand out in my mind. I could see her gravitating towards other men who were giving her attention, the attention she was wanting. I realize this much is my fault for not being more sensitive to her needs at the time, but I figured it was...
Oct 14, 2013
Dear Dr. Love, I just read the letter of July 9,2011, where a 27 year old lady says she is in love with her surgeon. She said everything that I could say about my surgeon! I had a gastric bypass surgery on Dec. 11, 2012, to lose weight. Today is Saturday October 5, 2013, and I have lost 120 lbs so far. My surgeon is 60 years old and I am 58. I am a white female, and he is a white male. He is divorced, has 4 adult children, and 3 grandsons that he...
Jul 29, 2013
After so much suffering i finally met someone special in a website and we already shared our emails and Skype and he is helping me with my book.He even shown me a book that he is writting and he says that i shouldnt worry because i never bore him!!He is really kind and sweet and i felt a special connetion between us since the first moment that we talked.But I don’t have the courage to tell him about my feelings for him!!I’m too scared that he could run away and loose his friendship. ;( We know...
Jul 29, 2013
I am 36 my husband is 40. After 14 years of marriage, our relationship was in in shambles. we barely talked, a conversation was painful, and we argued all the time. We continued to have sex, and we would flip flop back and forth about starting over, and then we never put forth effort like we should have. We have three children. I worked full time, commuted 2 hours a day, was in school finishing my degree and doing what I thought was the best for the family; I simply could not be the super...
Jul 28, 2013
I am currently serving in Afghanistan 4 months into a 6 month tour. I am currently in a 3 and a half year relationship with my girlfriend and before deploying out to Afghan everything was perfect in our relationship, there was obviously a few little minor faults but nothing major as our relationship was special. We both adored each other so much. After being out here for 2 months i had my RnR (2weeks off) and once again everything was perfect and we was both devasted when i had to return to...
Jul 13, 2013
My girlfriend and I got together when we were both 17. We were always close throughout school before this. When I was 16 (before I was with my girlfriend) I had some sexual experiences with a different girl. Mostly this was just fooling around, but one time at a party we did have brief intercourse. Without being too graphic, we were interrupted so not much really happened. Thi may sound harsh but I was never particularly keen on this girl and never really...
May 11, 2013
Hi Love Doctor, mine would be quite a long story and really thank you for the patience and time you took to read everything. :) here it goes... I got to know my girlfriend in school, we were very loving when we first got together, after being together for around 2months, her mum starts to disapprove our relationship as her mum thinks that my feelings for her daughter aren't real and that I do not love her. What made my girlfriend's mum to have the thought could be this: "One day, I was...
May 3, 2013
Hi! There is a guy I met online about 9,5 months ago. We live in different countries. Since we met we have been talking very often with each-other and for quite long each time. But this as only friends. Nothing more. Lately however I have got confused about my feelings for him. Some people close to me asked me once whether I was in love with him and that is where the "confusion period" started. So I am wondering, can it be just caused by "overthinking"? Can I only think that I might like him as...
May 3, 2013
Hey how are you? So I go to a military college in VA and my girl goes to school in Boston. We met a year ago and got really close over the summer and got serious. We kept talking when we both went away to school and we grew closer and more serious and fell in love. So I went to visit her one weekend and it didn't go well. It was our first time together in two months and all I wanted to do was spend time with her and just show her my feelings because I wasn't able to because of our distance...