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Dec 6, 2011
Dear Dr. Jamie, Thank you for providing this interface. I have been seeing a person for seven years and we were to get married in a few months. To my shock my fiance confessed to an affair with a grossly inappropriate person, his boss older by 27 years. He feels very guilty for having betrayed me and for having spoiled the boss' reputation. My fiance has been through a very difficult childhood having lost his father at a young age to drinking. His family provided him with very little...
Nov 11, 2011
Dear Dr. Love, I’m a 47 year old gay man (still in the closet). I work with a 50 year old married man who I think is into me, but doesn’t know how to express himself. We’ve been working together for almost 8 years in a small warehouse environment. Over the years we have become quite close. He has confided in me about his finances sometimes and we go out to lunch often. We always have a few beers and I get the feeling he wants to know if I’m into him. Its very akward as I...
Sep 20, 2011
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We live together have two kids and one on the way but over the months it has felt like something has changed when we have sex there is no Passion at ALL. I'm 21 and he is 26 he always puts me down instead of making me feel better about things like he used to he doesn't hold me when we sleep together at night I always have to make the first move he lies about the stupidest things he always tell me how unhappy he is and turns around and...
Sep 18, 2011
Dear Dr.Love, First I'd like to thank your replying my previous question(July 2011) and giving your valuble advice. I've tried following your advice for about 2 months and sharing the details below. I still have few questions regarding this. As you've told, I tried diverting my sexual feelings. I fantasized on few other women and watched hot movies in TV for masturbating. Still I couldn't giveup fantasizing my mother. Sorry, I didn't give enough details in my last post....
Jun 30, 2011
Everything was goin great.. me and this guy were talkin for like a month..he took me out on dates like to eat or movies or games.. it was awesome :) i really thought he was goin to ask me out sooner or later.. then... out of nowhere he told me i lied to him.. he said a girl told him that i wasnt a virgin.. :( he believed her. Im still one. I told him since the beginnin.. he didnt believe in me and he even told me to my face :/ it hurt me soo much that i decided not to talk to him again. i...
Jun 30, 2011
He liked me but now, not anymore because i pushed him away roughly. And now he hates me. Now he likes my best friend. My best friend always tells me whenever he texted her. I'm so jealous. I regret that I pushed him away before. What should i do? Confess that i want him or just run away. I'm scared whenever I meet him, talk to him or even see his face. Help me! I really LOVE him and want him so badly.
Jun 13, 2011
I have been in a relationship for 3.5 years. I love him dearly and he also says the same. However he said he will marry me 1 day but show no plans and doesn't want to talk about it. We haven't had any quality times together for a long time. His friends are always around 24/7 on weekends. We both work full time so I don't want to do much after work during weekdays. I just don't understand y can't he tell his friends that he has to spend time with me n tell them to go home....
Jun 3, 2011
I met a guy 4 years ago on web and we've been chatting with each other. He lives in aus and I live in hong kong. We just finally met in person in this january as he came to visit hk. we spent 4 days together and it was like heaven. we did have a lot of fun. he plans to visit me in hk soon,also i will go to visit him in aus in oct. but recently he told me that we cant be boyfriend and girlfriend now as we are in different places plus he has 2 more years until he finishes in aus (btw, hes 28...
May 13, 2011
Hi. I'm just afraid to lose my only and my first love experience all because of my boyfriend. I don't know how to deal with him. In fact he still is in love with his ex-girlfriend. I've doubts about him. I can't trust him. We broke up many times but each time we've made up. He loves to have sex with me but I don't like to. I feel that he only wants me for sex. My question is how can I deal with him. Should I forgive him and make up all because I love him so much....
May 13, 2011
What can I say? I was seeing this guy over the past 9 months. We have been on and off a couple of times and all in all we possibly saw each other as much as 15 times. In all that time we were living one hour apart, both with long work hours and different days off. I was coming off a break up after a three-year relationship (had happened a little over a year earlier) and so was he (he ended a year and a half relationship--his first serious relationship--seven months earlier). I was so...