Jan 28, 2014
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Dear Doctor Love: My live-in girlfriend and I fight very often of late and it seems to me to be over the least little thing! I admit that I can get very irritated at times but it seems that both of our tolerance levels have hit rock botom. I love her with all my heart but it seems that we are falling apart. I think it is related to the fact that she just will not let go of past problems. Whenever we fight I swear that she has a satellite link up to a computer with all the things I did wrong...
Jan 5, 2014
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hey Dr. love. i have this problem that i already don't know how i'm going to fix. i need an advice since i'm just 23 years old, i don't have much experience in life. i have a 23 year old girlfriend and 4 year old daughter. my girlfriend and i we're seeing each other for 5 years. since our baby was born 4 years ago, we started living under my mom and dad's house. but when there we're some misunderstandings just a year ago between my mom and my girlfriend, we decided to move out. we transferred...
Dec 11, 2012
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Dear Dr Love I am 50 yr old female dating a 53 yr old man for a little over a year.  He was married for over 25 years and he and his wife divorced (he did not want the divorce).  by his account, toward the end the relationship was volitale (he doesn't speak much about it-- but mostly blames himself)  Anyhow, he's been divorced for approx. 6 yrs.  He's dated several women and had at least one serious girlfriend in that time.  He's a good man and does a lot to help...
Jul 8, 2012
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Hi my name is Jackie. I dont know where to start. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now. We are like best friends and a couple. I met him a year after he came out of a 8 year relationship. He told me in the beginning he wants to be a buddhist monk but i never believed him. He told me sometimes i must move on and be with someone else as he cant offer the things i want in life as he wants to become a monk. As soon as i try to leave him alone and respect his wishes i find myself back...
Apr 17, 2012
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I've known my Ex for years. Our parents went to school together, and since the first day we met, we immediately connected. Also, he only lives a few houses down from me, which made it easier for both of us. I'm only 16 at the moment, and i know there are people out there that say you can't experience love and heartbreak at such a young age. But honestly, it kills me inside as i sit and think about things every night, and as i'm writing this! We are both more or less the same age, i'm exactly...
Apr 10, 2012
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hello i want you to help me .... i want to tell you all my story with my love.... it was before one year , i met my girlfriend on facebook ... we loved each other from the bottom of our heart . i am not going to lie there were alot of problems because she is an American and i am Arabic . two months ago she took me off from her friends  list on facebook i was suprised why she did that . i dont know she changed a lot . we dont talk  like before . during the year we spent together we...
Mar 31, 2012
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Dr love i count on your huge experience to help on this situation.I am 30 she 26.i met her in badoo before 2 weeks and after some talking she gave me her skype.she is going to come here in crete in one month to work during season in hotel.we continued talking after that for around 3 hours every day.sometimes with camera.she is flirting with me laughs with my jokes,teasing me and generally seems to like me very much.the problem is that i found out that she has a boyfriend who met last summer...
Mar 24, 2012
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Hi, Dr. Love I'm 16 and he's 18. He lives in Canada and I live in Boston. We met on a cruise and we've been dating for over a year. My boyfriend calls me names constantly. Sometimes, he says it as a joke at first, and when I tell him "I won't tolerate you disrespecting me." and I hang up the skype call and ignore a few of the other ones, (We're long distance) and then I finally answer after several calls, he always calls me dumb and a dumbass for not answering the calls and that he was joking...
Feb 22, 2012
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I've been with my ex since high school. We were best friends and our relationship has been off and on. It's been mainly off and on because of him; he can't let go of the sexual abuseSexual abuse, also referred to as molestation, is the forcing of undesired sexual behavior by one person upon another. When that force is immediate, of short duration, or infrequent, it is called...(Click for full definition.) that happened in his past. He's forever thinking that he hurts me when I tell him that he...
Jan 1, 2012
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hello! i'm sorry i can't speak english well but i will try to explain my pain.( Note here: Dr. Turndorf has edited the following letter where needed so that the question is clear to her readers.) i met my girl two years ago in the time we’ve known each other she had  a broken heart and i'm the one who helped her to survive. If she needed anyone I was there for her during this time. After she got passed her bad time i think that she liked me and i started to love her but i waited...
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