Jan 7, 2010
Hey Doc, I am a 29 year old male with no kids who is and has been interested in a 28 year old female with four kids. We started flirting around September 2009 but it never really went past friendship. During October - December me and her remained flirting friends but I noticed this guy that we work with was always around her so I asked her what was going on with them and she said "we're trying to be a couple." I was shocked because she didn't tell me but thought, oh well, let...
Apr 2, 2007
Hi, I am 20 yrs old, female, and have just broken up with my first love. We dated for just over a year and have been best friends for 5. We are both engineering students, and our school life is very demanding. We started to see less and less of each other because of school. As things were getting complicated, he found out that he got a 16 month job placement out of town. He says he loves me, but being 20 yrs old, he is not ready for that big of a commitment. What bothers me is that 4 months...
Feb 5, 2007
Hi. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and a couple of months ago I gave him a gift. I gave him my permission to sleep with someone else one time. It ended up happening with one of my old friends from high school but it went wrong. When I say wrong I don't mean he messed it up or she didn't want to do it. They did sleep together, but I recently found out they didn't use protection. She kissed him when I left the room before anything started and without my permission. Ever since...
Jun 28, 2004
My husband and I have been married a year and a half. We have been together for 5 years. he seems to feel that sex is the answer to everything. When I come home from work after working 12 hours he wants sex. If I'm depressed, he thinks sex can cure everything. He claims he is never too tired. He pouts when I tell him I'm not in the mood. He is 52 years old and often acts like a teenager where matters of sex are concerned. There was a time I would love to cuddle with him. But he always...
Oct 7, 2002
Dear Dr. Love, Last night I got pissed at my boyfriend Mikal. He whispered I love you and I was like, what? I did that so he would say it louder. And then he says nothing and I'm like, what? again. And I said did you say I love you? and he said yeah! and I'm like why did you say it so low for? is it cuz your friends are here? and he said yeah cuz they're here. And I'm all what! Man I am not talking to you. It just offends me that my boyfriend can't say that he loves me when his friends are...
Aug 26, 2002
Dear Dr. Love: Great site. I'm not really sure how to put this and I know the chances of you picking my question are slim. Perhaps it will help me just to write it down and send it into cyberspace. I am 23 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been dating exclusively for almost 2 years. We live in Michigan. I was close friends with his younger sister in high school, and that 's how we met. When we met, I was 18, and he was living with and engaged to another girl. His family is very...
May 13, 2002
Dear Dr Love I hope you can help. I've been seeing a man for a little over a year. We are very much in love and both agree nothing like this has ever happened to us before. We are both in our 30s and have bought a house together and plan to get married. He has two previous long term relationships (8 years and 5 years) and is on friendly terms with both women. I have one previous relationship which I ended and we have no contact. I am having problems accepting his two ex partners. He wants us to...