Mar 5, 2012
Good morning- I am a guy who is on the verge or has lost his girlfriend. I am 36 years old, divorce with 2 kids. I have been in a relationship with this woman who is 34 years old, 2 kids and divorced for over a year. We grew up in the same town, but didn't know one another, until 18 months ago we connected. I had gotten out of a relationship so my baggage was in the way, in the beginning. I work with a counselor for my habits on failure and low self esteem of myself. Over the year...
Aug 14, 2011
Dr. Love. Here's my story. Me and my ex of 3 and a half years broke up back in December out of stupidity, ego (on both parts). At first, she begged me back but I was too consumed with anger to accept her. And within weeks I fell into a rebound relationship which lasted for a couple of weeks. Well I did sleep with my rebound and foolishly admitted that to my love (cause I thought honestyMany people believe that "honesty is the best policy" in intimate relationships. Nothing could be further...
Jun 21, 2011
I have been married for 11 years. My husband is a negative person. He also suffers low self-esteem. He has always been jealous of his friends' success. What worries me lately is that he is jealous of me. He always mentions that he's frustrated with his career and that he doesn't get enough support from me. He is always saying that he helps me plan my life and then things work out for me better than they do for himself. I am working full-time, raising two children, do most of the housework,...
May 24, 2011
I have a long and complex situation. I was in a 2 year relationship with a man who I am still in love with but am so unsure of what to do. Our relationship was amazing at times and rocky at other times. Let me tell you a little about his past, maybe this will help to paint a better picture because I have a feeling the way our relationship was and how it ended has a lot to do with his upbringing. He was told that his birth mom abandoned him, and he lived with his alcoholic father...
May 24, 2011
MY WIFE LANDED A JOB A FEW MONTHS AGO IN WEIGHT LOSS, MASSAGE THERAPY. AVERAGE PAY I SAW WAS 500 TO 700 A WEEK AND A COUPLE HUNDRED IN TIPS. I WAS CLUELESS. I FOUND OUT SHE AVERAGED 2000 A WEEK AND IT WAS A FRONT FOR A SEX SHOP EVEN THOUGH NO ACTUAL INTERCOURSE WAS DONE. I FOUND MOST OF THIS FROM THE NEWS AND NEWSPAPERS AND THEN SHE BROKE DOWN AND CONFESSED. I FLIPPED OUT. MY PROBLEM IS I WANT A DIVORCE AND EXPLAINED TO HER I NO LONGER HAVE ANY TRUST, RESPECT AND...
May 13, 2011
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now but he has become cold towards me since we had a break up about a month ago. Since then he does not want to kiss, touch, hug or make love to me. He says he needs time to get over what happened before. I also know he meets with his ex and that they meet every day while he makes excuses to meet with me. My family doesn't like him so he feels like he has no future with me but I don't see it that way. He says he wants we take things slow between us and...
Mar 21, 2011
Hi my name is Destiny and I'm a new member! My boyfriend and I are in love...I mean in love, it's pure! My boyfriend and I started off friends. While we were friends we fell in love, than we had sex! To top that off, we fell deep in love! We don't live together but we spent 93 days straight with each other. We had our argumentsArguments or disputes are inevitable in all intimate relationships. How a couple handles these conflicts will determine whether their relationship is...
Nov 10, 2010
My girlfriend has been talking to this guy a lot more than she talks to me and they talk about sexual things all the the time like giving blow jobs and etc. I found out about this and asked her to stop talking to him because I didn't like it and she said it was no problem but now things have gotten worse. I tried to give her time to stop but it's been 2 months and it doesn't look like there is going to be any change. He has told her numerous times that he likes her and she should...
Oct 13, 2010
Hi Dr. Love, I really need your help. My boyfriend of 2 years and 6 months left me and it's been 1 month now that we are not together anymore but I miss him so much. What happened is that I lost my job about 3 months ago and since that day we always argued and he was not patient with me at all and I could not even talk with him and tell him how I feel cause he would never listen or help me at all. Suddenly one day he just came home and told me that he didn't have any more ...
Aug 25, 2010
My fiance and I are having difficulty with communication. I'll try and talk to him about something simple and he starts to yell to get his point across. He's Italian, and his family is very loud as well. I feel like he is this way because it's what he's grown up with and sees nothing wrong with it. My family is the opposite. We sit down and talk about an issue to try to resolve it. I'm very sensitive and will cry (mostly out of frustration) when he starts...