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Feb 17, 2013
OK, I am in a relationship that I've been in for 10 years. I have a 2 year old with this man, and I love him very much, but we fight all the time since we had the baby. We fight over everything from his mother to money, it's terrible. I would love to stay with him and make things work, but I find myself lately missing that new spark you feel in a new relationship, and feeling like I want to feel that again, but possibly with someone else, no one in particular, just to feel that again...
Jan 27, 2013
I had sent you a message on your Facebook page awhile back, and you said to contact you via this method. I am so lost, my marriage has completely deteriorated. So much so filing the divorceDivorce is a legal dissolution of the marriage bond. Many couples divorce themselves from each other on an emotional level long before a legal divorce is sought. As I say in my book, Till Death Do Us...(Click for full definition.) papers is almost the only thing left to do. :( The very first time...
Jul 17, 2012
Hi, i was wondering if you could give me some advice about what to do aboout my parents and my boyfriend. my boyfriend Hunter and i have been dating for 7 months now. we have been through a lot together, we really do love each other and we have been best friends for awhile before we started dating. i do admit sometimes we have huge argumentsArguments or disputes are inevitable in all intimate relationships. How a couple handles these conflicts will determine whether their relationship is...
Jun 25, 2012
Dear Dr. Love, In less than a month, my boyfriend and I will be celebrating our 5th anniversary but right now I'm having problems with him. Yesterday, I opened his facebook and read his conversations with his "girl" friends (3 different conversations). (i know i'm invading his privacy but for 4 years, i'm still complaining about this problem to him). I know they were just talking about stuff, saying hi's and hellos, and i don't want to give meaning to that but i get...
Jun 10, 2012
My girlfriend and I met 5 months ago online, I was so excited and blissful with this new found relationship. We've kept the feeling of happiness between us the same for this long, then suddenly the other night t I decided to reveal a secret because I couldn't take it anymore, the secret being I am not infact her age I am younger, not by much, but younger none-the-less. My girlfriend told me that she had known for a long while and the guilt was lifted off my shoulders. My problem lies in...
Mar 24, 2012
Hi, Dr. Love I'm 16 and he's 18. He lives in Canada and I live in Boston. We met on a cruise and we've been dating for over a year. My boyfriend calls me names constantly. Sometimes, he says it as a joke at first, and when I tell him "I won't tolerate you disrespecting me." and I hang up the skype call and ignore a few of the other ones, (We're long distance) and then I finally answer after several calls, he always calls me dumb and a dumbass for not answering the calls and that he was joking...
Mar 5, 2012
Good morning- I am a guy who is on the verge or has lost his girlfriend. I am 36 years old, divorce with 2 kids. I have been in a relationship with this woman who is 34 years old, 2 kids and divorced for over a year. We grew up in the same town, but didn't know one another, until 18 months ago we connected. I had gotten out of a relationship so my baggage was in the way, in the beginning. I work with a counselor for my habits on failure and low self esteem of myself. Over the year...
Aug 14, 2011
Dr. Love. Here's my story. Me and my ex of 3 and a half years broke up back in December out of stupidity, ego (on both parts). At first, she begged me back but I was too consumed with anger to accept her. And within weeks I fell into a rebound relationship which lasted for a couple of weeks. Well I did sleep with my rebound and foolishly admitted that to my love (cause I thought honestyMany people believe that "honesty is the best policy" in intimate relationships. Nothing could be further...
Jun 21, 2011
I have been married for 11 years. My husband is a negative person. He also suffers low self-esteem. He has always been jealous of his friends' success. What worries me lately is that he is jealous of me. He always mentions that he's frustrated with his career and that he doesn't get enough support from me. He is always saying that he helps me plan my life and then things work out for me better than they do for himself. I am working full-time, raising two children, do most of the housework,...
May 24, 2011
I have a long and complex situation. I was in a 2 year relationship with a man who I am still in love with but am so unsure of what to do. Our relationship was amazing at times and rocky at other times. Let me tell you a little about his past, maybe this will help to paint a better picture because I have a feeling the way our relationship was and how it ended has a lot to do with his upbringing. He was told that his birth mom abandoned him, and he lived with his alcoholic father...