Sep 9, 2012
Hello, I am writing because I am confused on what to do. I figure you know this already since I am sending this message to a complete stranger in hopes to find a answer to my feelings. This is my fairly tale love story. Recently I was away for 5 weeks of annual training with the military. While away, in a small town I met a women. This women was like no other I have met, she was very warming and open with me. We spent around 3 days a week together. And I'd occasionally swing by her work and...
Jun 3, 2011
I met a guy 4 years ago on web and we've been chatting with each other. He lives in aus and I live in hong kong. We just finally met in person in this january as he came to visit hk. we spent 4 days together and it was like heaven. we did have a lot of fun. he plans to visit me in hk soon,also i will go to visit him in aus in oct. but recently he told me that we cant be boyfriend and girlfriend now as we are in different places plus he has 2 more years until he finishes in aus (btw, hes 28...
Nov 5, 2010
I need good advice. So 2.5 years ago I met a girl on the Internet and we fell in love after a half-year. We wrote a lot of letters and such but after 8-9 months we both agreed it would be better that we weren't in a relationship anymore, cause she couldn't handle the fact that I was living in Belgium and she in Poland. We would meet person during the summer but she couldn't handle waiting so long and I had also many troubles with it. We couldn't meet more often cause she was 17...
Oct 28, 2010
Hey my question is kind of long so here goes. My girlfriend left town a month ago. She says her mom and dad made a plan to ''kidnap'' her. She hasn't ended things or anything of the sort. I, on the other hand, am trying to get over her but I can't get any closure because weeks before she left she told me she was pregnant, and a few days ago she told me she wants us to move in together. She almost never calls even though she claims to and I don't know what to do....
Dec 24, 2009
I met him at work, the moment we looked at each other something happened. He completely changed how things were in my life. He gave me his number and we quickly started seeing each other. Everything was perfect. You know that feeling when you finally know that you met the one? That's how I felt and he even told me I was perfect for him. We were compatible in every possible way...I could feel it within my heart and soul. Now, as young as I am, I've been through so much in my life that I am not...
Aug 26, 2007
Hello Dr. T, I AM 31 YEARS OLD SINGLE WOMAN LIVING IN THE UK. RECENTLY I HAVE MET A GERMAN TOURING STUDENT WHILE BOTH LOOKING FOR ACCOMMODATION FOR A NIGHT WE ENDED UP HAVING DINNER AT THE SAME RESTAURANT AND THEN A DRINK BEFORE EXCHANGING E-MAILS AND PARTING. HE CONTACTED ME A DAY LATER AND WANTED TO VISIT ME IN MY HOME TOWN. I LIKED HIM AND I HAD THE IMPRESSION THAT HE DID TOO SO I GAVE HIM DIRECTIONS ON HOW TO GET THERE. HE ARRIVED AND STAYED FOR ONE DAY. I MET HIM AFTER WORK. WE HAD DINNER...
May 14, 2007
Hi Dr. Love. I am a college female and I am desperate for advice. I am in a two-year relationship with someone that I love so much, but when he does something wrong I let him get away with it after staying mad for a day or so. However, I only did one thing wrong by not trusting him and he wanted to break up until I begged him not to. He set down rules such as I cannot look at his cell phone or ask where and with whom he goes on the weekends. I know for a fact he had not been cheating, so I do...
Nov 8, 2004
Dr. Love, I have a serious question. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I moved away from my parents about a year ago. I am 20 years old and I am wanting to get married to my girlfriend. She tells me sometimes that she can't wait but other times she is ok with living with her parents. I am getting so tired of going to her parents house and it feels like we are watched all the time. She is always having to report back to them about what she is doing. We have been arguing...
Feb 16, 2004
Lost Love? I'm best friends with a girl who I have known for like 5 years. We have the perfect friendship. I'm always there when she needs me and and I always listen to what she has to to say. The problem is I'm madly in love with her and have been from the beginning. We have had romance between us off and on and never had a bad split up it was always bad timing. I moved away, yet still talked to her every night before I went to bed for a couple of years. Well I moved back close to her. The...
Aug 4, 2003
I am 21 and have known this guy since I was in 7th grade. About 4 years ago we hung out almost everyday and he just treats me exceptionally well. I moved away and over the past 3 years he has sent me around 30 letters and I visit often. I have been in love with him for so long but never told him because it would be selfish of me to impose my feelings on him since I am so far away. Lately his letters have been more intimate asking if we are wasting valuble time and he has started closing with...