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Sep 28, 2015
I am a 22 you male virgin who has never had a girkfriend. I worry that this is a bad thing and will only lead to rejection when found out. I had a troubled start to life and when most people my age where starting to become sexaul active I was developing depression and anxiety. My mental health has improved greatly and I have a good job but I still feel like my lack of experience will be a instant turn off. I never had affection as a child soo sex is only secondary to me. I'm looking for love...
Oct 21, 2014
In 1997 I was drugged then raped by both males and females, publicly and captured on people's mobiles. This was then shared throughout my town. This attracted unwelcome attention from males which included another similar event in 2008.Sadly the people responsible were care workers and "friends"and sinceI had no memories of the events. I have been slandered,lied about and sexually abused.No-one believes me and my partnerdoesn't either and says I have destroyed his life What can I do when he...
Apr 21, 2014
Dear Dr. Love, My husband and I have been married six years. One year ago we moved from New York City to San Diego. I had a career opportunity here that was too good to pass up. The problem is my husband has not been able to find a job since moving here and it is putting a terrible strain on our marriage. He is in the computer industry and has sent out hundreds of resumes without much luck at all. After rent and bills there is not much money left over. His confidence is low and I try to have...
Aug 20, 2013
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now... and lately everything around him is crashing down. i tried to explain everything will get better in his life..and it just gets worse...his car has been broken down for 4 months his sister screwed him over and he owes 4,000 to her apartments then someone stole his phone his grandma went to the hospital...thats just a few things that he is going through. I keep trying to tell him it will be okay..and now he is to the point where he just...
Aug 19, 2013
Hi Dr. Turndorf, First I will give you a little background of my life. I suffer from OCD and Anxiety Disorders. I am 27 years old, and have only been on medication for about 4 years. However, while the medication has been effective, my symptoms have been 95% stopped for only the last 6 months. I have had a couple of girlfriends, but nothing that has lasted. It took several years to find a medication combination that worked this well. So, I am not very experienced with dating. I am average...
Aug 19, 2013
My husband and I have been married for close to 4 years. During this 4 year period, we have had a satisfying sexual relationship. But, I will add that we have had our share of dry spells. All of these 'dry spells' were caused by me. I would go through periods of having little interest in sex. But they usually would not last long. Then close to four months ago, I was diagnosed with depression and put on the medication Zoloft. This medication has done wonders for my life. BUT, it has really hurt...
Nov 27, 2012
I am a 29 year old male who has noticed a significant decrease in penis sensation over the years. In fact, I really do not feel anything until about 30 seconds before I ejaculate. In order to get that far I need lots of oral sex with a strong hand grip going up and down from the female. It has lessened my desire for sex and has destroyed some of my relationships. I wonder if there is a problem or if what I am experiencing is normal sexual sensations. If so, I can't even understand why...
Nov 27, 2012
I am happily married, however my husband has no interest. We have been married for six years, and haven't had sex in over a year. I have done a psych self exam about my weight, attitude, and sought advice of many others. I am in my forty's and am really very interested in sex. However-- my husband, who is 45 seems less than interested. Please advise--
Oct 30, 2012
I am much more interested in sex than my husband. It causes problems in our marriage because I feel he doesn't love me as much because he rejects my advances more often than not. To compensate, I masterbate fairly frequently. We have been married 14 years and have a 4 year old and a 9 month old. I get less sleep by far than he does and yet he still uses the too tired excuse, among others, on a regular basis. If it weren't for the kids and the fact that he is truly a good man, I'd...
Jan 1, 2012
hello! i'm sorry i can't speak english well but i will try to explain my pain.( Note here: Dr. Turndorf has edited the following letter where needed so that the question is clear to her readers.) i met my girl two years ago in the time we’ve known each other she had a broken heart and i'm the one who helped her to survive. If she needed anyone I was there for her during this time. After she got passed her bad time i think that she liked me and i started to love her but i waited...