Dec 14, 2011
Hi Dr. Love! Thank you for providing this service. They say fortune favors the brave, but sometimes even the strong need a lifting hand to get back in the saddle again.... I'm a 42-year-old female. I've been in a relationship with a younger man, 13 years younger. I never dated younger men and broke this rule because he was so mature and very different from any man I've ever met. Our relationship has been perfect. We have had open communication, honesty...
Nov 17, 2008
Hi Dr Love, I really love the way you tend to people's problems. Please i have a problem. There is a girl that I love and I said that I will always be there for her. We have been together for 1 year now. We had sex 6 times and now she says she is pregnant.
Apr 30, 2007
I met a guy 4 yrs ago whilst traveling and he moved countries to be with me. We had a really great relationship; enjoyed being together and were very comfortable & talked a lot. After 2 years of living together I had a miscarriage and he confessed after this that he had been unfaithful. We split & didn't see each other for 2 months after which time we started spending time together again. He seemed to have changed or at least grown up a bit. I got pregnant again and after about 6 weeks...
May 2, 2005
Hi Dr. Love, I love your responses to the columns and I wish there were more persons like you who would do this type of job as good as you do.don't know where to start since this is really hard for me. Let me start from the beginning. My boyfriend and I had been together for 2 1/2 years of dating when he broke up with me in 2000. I was hurt because he was my first and only guy whom I had ever had sexual relations with. He didn't have a good reason for the break up. We just had an argument as...
Apr 11, 2005
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we have sex a few times a week and when we started having sex we were very protective. He would wear a condom ALWAYS and I would be on the pill. I have been on the pill almost 3 years and I have been very good at taking them at the same time everyday. My question is, or my concern is that in the past couple months my boyfriend and I have been having sex without the condom. . . He won't orgasm inside me. He usually pulls out or we do eventually...
Nov 15, 2004
I have a new boyfriend and we still use condoms for protection against STD and pregnancy. I'm not used to condoms anymore, since the last person I had sex with was my ex-husband. I took the pill so he didn't need to use condoms. Now I wonder if he should use a new condom with every time we go at it, even if it is several times in a row in one night? Is it necessary to get cleaned before we do it again? Doesn't sound romantic.
Mar 15, 2004
Dear Dr Love, I don't know what to do. I am going through what I guess you could call a break-up right now, and I need some advice on what I should do. Let me give you a little bit of background info on the relationship before I get to my question. I'm 25 and I had been seeing this guy who is 21 for over a year, but we never officially called ourselves 'boyfriend and girlfriend'. He sometimes slept with other girls while I was seeing him, but because he was never my 'boyfriend' I didn't have...
Jan 26, 2004
I been going out with a girl for 5 years off and on. She's a about a month pregnant with my kid. for the last couple months she been acting like a complete bitch. I try to talk to her about it but she don't want to listen. Also i'm going to iraq for 8 months. I get this funny feeling that i want to leave her, but she's pregnant with my kid. It's weird she completly changed. We hardly ever talk on the phone anymore. She recently lost some close relatives. To make things worse she lives in Hawaii...
Jan 19, 2004
Hi, Dr. Love. I find your answers so compassionate that I thought I'd ask you for some wisdom about a relationship problem I'm having. I am a 35-yr-old with a lot going for her. I've been divorced for a year and don't have a problem getting dates. Unfortunately, I am sterile (premature ovarian failure) and pregnancy is out of the question, barring some sort of miracle, although I'd love to adopt. I've hesitated to get involved with anyone. Recently, I thought I'd met the perfect guy: fun,...