May 24, 2011
I have a long and complex situation. I was in a 2 year relationship with a man who I am still in love with but am so unsure of what to do. Our relationship was amazing at times and rocky at other times. Let me tell you a little about his past, maybe this will help to paint a better picture because I have a feeling the way our relationship was and how it ended has a lot to do with his upbringing. He was told that his birth mom abandoned him, and he lived with his alcoholic father...
May 24, 2011
MY WIFE LANDED A JOB A FEW MONTHS AGO IN WEIGHT LOSS, MASSAGE THERAPY. AVERAGE PAY I SAW WAS 500 TO 700 A WEEK AND A COUPLE HUNDRED IN TIPS. I WAS CLUELESS. I FOUND OUT SHE AVERAGED 2000 A WEEK AND IT WAS A FRONT FOR A SEX SHOP EVEN THOUGH NO ACTUAL INTERCOURSE WAS DONE. I FOUND MOST OF THIS FROM THE NEWS AND NEWSPAPERS AND THEN SHE BROKE DOWN AND CONFESSED. I FLIPPED OUT. MY PROBLEM IS I WANT A DIVORCE AND EXPLAINED TO HER I NO LONGER HAVE ANY TRUST, RESPECT AND...
May 13, 2011
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now but he has become cold towards me since we had a break up about a month ago. Since then he does not want to kiss, touch, hug or make love to me. He says he needs time to get over what happened before. I also know he meets with his ex and that they meet every day while he makes excuses to meet with me. My family doesn't like him so he feels like he has no future with me but I don't see it that way. He says he wants we take things slow between us and...
May 13, 2011
Hi. I'm just afraid to lose my only and my first love experience all because of my boyfriend. I don't know how to deal with him. In fact he still is in love with his ex-girlfriend. I've doubts about him. I can't trust him. We broke up many times but each time we've made up. He loves to have sex with me but I don't like to. I feel that he only wants me for sex. My question is how can I deal with him. Should I forgive him and make up all because I love him so much....
May 13, 2011
What can I say? I was seeing this guy over the past 9 months. We have been on and off a couple of times and all in all we possibly saw each other as much as 15 times. In all that time we were living one hour apart, both with long work hours and different days off. I was coming off a break up after a three-year relationship (had happened a little over a year earlier) and so was he (he ended a year and a half relationship--his first serious relationship--seven months earlier). I was so...
Nov 10, 2010
My girlfriend has been talking to this guy a lot more than she talks to me and they talk about sexual things all the the time like giving blow jobs and etc. I found out about this and asked her to stop talking to him because I didn't like it and she said it was no problem but now things have gotten worse. I tried to give her time to stop but it's been 2 months and it doesn't look like there is going to be any change. He has told her numerous times that he likes her and she should...
Oct 28, 2010
Hey my question is kind of long so here goes. My girlfriend left town a month ago. She says her mom and dad made a plan to ''kidnap'' her. She hasn't ended things or anything of the sort. I, on the other hand, am trying to get over her but I can't get any closure because weeks before she left she told me she was pregnant, and a few days ago she told me she wants us to move in together. She almost never calls even though she claims to and I don't know what to do....
Oct 13, 2010
Hi Dr. Love, I really need your help. My boyfriend of 2 years and 6 months left me and it's been 1 month now that we are not together anymore but I miss him so much. What happened is that I lost my job about 3 months ago and since that day we always argued and he was not patient with me at all and I could not even talk with him and tell him how I feel cause he would never listen or help me at all. Suddenly one day he just came home and told me that he didn't have any more ...
Sep 9, 2010
I just broke up with my boyfriend. For the past many months we've been like this: One moment we were ok, then the next we are not. He gets upset over trivial things like me waiting for my sister, then he gets angry then breaks up with me. So I would just have to plead with him meet some conditions so that we will be ok again. I feel like I'm being emotionally abused. But this time I was really not in the mood and instead of pleading I okeyed his breaking up with me. Now,...
Aug 17, 2010
Hey Dr Love, I am a 15 year-old guy and my girlfriend and I broke up. I want her back but the more that I try to bring her back it feels like the more I try, the more it back fires on me. Now I don't know what to do but to tell her friend, but she just blows it off. Please help me you are my last hope. Signed: crazy