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Mar 2, 2014
My girlfriend has been talking to this guy a lot more than she talks to me and they talk about sexual things all the the time like giving blow jobs and etc. I found out about this and asked her to stop talking to him because I didn't like it and she said it was no problem but now things have gotten worse. I tried to give her time to stop but it's been 2 months and it doesn't look like there is going to be any change. He has told her numerous times that he likes her and she should break up with...
Jan 5, 2014
Hi Dr.Love I hope you can help me find some answers to my heartache...I have been told its been my insecurities and that I am negative is why it is over..Which I have tried to look at my part in things... so maybe some outside opinion will help me move on... Ok well she was a friend of mine that told me she was in love with me.. she said we were soul mates and if I only would give her a chance to prove it... I would find my true love and be happy.. well I was dealing with my feeling for my wife...
Nov 4, 2013
Five days ago, my ex broke up with me and confessed to cheatingSee Infidelity. on me with another girl. She thinks she could could be lesbian and wants time alone to figure it out. She said that we might be able to work it out. It was so sudden, it left me in shock and heart broken. Iv always put her first and did my best to make her happy. I love her. She says she still loves me. But i kinda feel like she is playing games, just to keep me there. HonestyMany people believe that "honesty is the...
Nov 4, 2013
dear dr love, hello im a 33 year old gay guy i have had a rough life also a father of two and divorced it something that happen before i new that i was gay i been in a abusive relationship for 3 years i had a boy friend that used to hit on me i got out of that and was single for two years working and taking care of my kids i work as a care aide and so i work long hrs and some time i do over nite shifts. i ran in to this guy that was going to...
Jun 28, 2013
Dr Love, I read some more articles of yours and realized that my fear of abandonmentAbandonment is a legal term describing the failure of a non-custodial parent to provide support to his or her children according to the terms approved by a court of law. In common use, abandonment...(Click for full definition.) and my insecurities / trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose. More comprehensively trust defined as "the...
May 11, 2013
Hi Love Doctor, mine would be quite a long story and really thank you for the patience and time you took to read everything. :) here it goes... I got to know my girlfriend in school, we were very loving when we first got together, after being together for around 2months, her mum starts to disapprove our relationship as her mum thinks that my feelings for her daughter aren't real and that I do not love her. What made my girlfriend's mum to have the thought could be this: "One day, I was...
Jan 7, 2013
I messed up with my chance to get my ex bf back. We dated for almost one and half year, we had very healthy relationship, shared lots of interests, just like perfect match to each other. We broke up since he said he suddenly lost feelings for me, I tried to bring him back, I did not follow NC rules, we still talked, at that time seemed I had a good chance if I stayed calm and kept working. Then I did something super stupid, I found he was using some dating app, so I added him using a...
Dec 11, 2012
I have been in a relationship with a man for the last 11 months everything has been real good and I mean real good. All of a sudden he tells me that we need to slow things down and not see each other as much. My family and his spent the holidays and birthdays together. I think that he is scared of the closeness that we have now. He says that we need to be just friends. I don't know if I can just be friends with him because I'm in love with him and want to be with him as a couple not as his...
Nov 11, 2012
I'm afraid I need some advice. I am 22 and engaged to a man that I don't trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose. More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.). In the past year he has been arrested, fired, actually there has been too much trouble to mention. He isn't the same person that I fell in love with. Our main problem is that he lies to...
Nov 11, 2012
I am so confused. My boyfriend of 4 years has lied to me about an internet relationship that began over 4 months ago. He says that he has turned to the internet becaue he has limited friends and I am not around. He has dangled the'carrot' of living together as an option to marriage since he has two more years of school and lives over 300 miles away . I became aware of this relationship after he started talking about his ' e-mail buddy' and started knocking the concept of marriage. He said...