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Relationship Advice

Does She Love Me?

I am 24 years old. I am in love with a 19 year old girl. She is my brother-in-law's sister.

I have good relations with her and with her family. I proposed to her by sending her an e-mail. At first she said she is innocent and she can only be my unique friend. Then in her next mail she said that you are nice person you will get a nice partner, right partner when the time comes.

And she also said You like me. It's all right and asked me when I had that feeling of attraction towards her.

What should I think? Does she love me?

I'm Not Willing to Share Him

It's been 2 weeks since I wrote a letter telling a man how I felt about him. I told him that I cared about him, but I cannot let my feelings get 2 involved because I know that he has begun to see another woman; he was not in the beginning. I told him that I was upset because I thought that we were working toward something special.

She Keeps You up All Night When She's Sexually Frustrated

Hi, I recently got married, to a wonderful woman, with whom I'm very much in love. I'm 29, and she's 24. I've been in a few relationships before, but this is her first serious one.

The problem is that, when we make love, if she has an orgasm, it's invariably very powerful, and everything is fine. However, if she doesn't have an orgasm, for whatever reason, it's absolute hell, as she gets quite upset and her mood totally changes, rejecting all attempts to kiss, cuddle or even talk. She also often cries at this moment.

Long Distance Lovelorn

Dear Dr. Love,

I am hoping that you can help me. I have been in a relationship with a guy for several months, and things up to this point have been going very well. Since the start, we see each other frequently, talk every day, etc. We have had our arguments, but nothing really serious.

Needing Love Again

Hello Dr. Turndorf,

My name is Mike and I'm 23 years old. My wife is 42 years old. I know that 's a big diffrence in age, but ever since I layed my eyes on her I just couldn't stop thinking about her.

Here is my problem, for the first year and a half our sex life was great, but now it's like she doesn't even want anything to do with me. Is it me or is there something that I'm missing in this battle to get some love time.

Please help me understand. Thank you for your time.

Are We Compatible?

I am a never married 41 year old woman, who is in a relationship of 4 years to a 47 year old never married man. We have no children. We just got engaged this year. I was kind of pushing for this and was ectatic to get a ring and proposal.

Now, I am getting cold feet about the upcoming marriage. He is a very independent man and I am afraid he will not share his total life with me, as in being with me at home, talking and being affectionate, not in a sexual way, but just by being close.

Drug Addiction and Mental Illness

Dearest Dr. Turndorf,

I hope that you are doing well and that you are in good health. Thank you kindly for all the help that you provide to those who are in need. It is deeply appreciated.

Please help me. I need to ask you questions that I desperately need answers for. My name is Lara, I hope that you remember me. . . My father was very abusive verbally, psychologically and physically with my mother and my brother and sisters. He traumatized us and I fear that the damage is permanent and will destroy my whole family.

Cold Calling Has You Frozen with Fear

I am a 33 year old woman. I don't have a boyfriend, in fact I've never even dated a guy, although I admire this one particular guy a lot. I got his phone number from a friend, but the problem is I don't have the guts to talk to him.

I'm a rather shy woman by nature and I just don't know what to say or how to begin. But I know that I have to overcome my shyness so that I could get to know him and win his heart. I'm just afraid that he might reject me and put down the phone.


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