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Relationship Advice

This page lists all my latest advice columns in all categories.

There are three main categories of advice. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in that category:

Relationships Dating Sex

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Oct 15, 2013
Dating Advice
Dear Dr. Love,    I just read the letter of July 9,2011, where a 27 year old lady says she is in love with her surgeon. She said everything that I could say about my surgeon!  I had a gastric bypass surgery on Dec. 11, 2012, to lose weight.  Today is Saturday October 5, 2013, and I have lost 120 lbs so far. My surgeon is 60 years old and I am 58.  I am a white female, and he is a white male.  He is divorced, has 4 adult children, and 3 grandsons that he...
Sep 30, 2013
Sex Advice
Hello,   I stumbled upon your website while searching for an answer to my condition. I am a 25 year old man and a virgin. I have had brief affairs in the past but none of them led to any physical intimacyAn intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship. It can be defined by these characteristics: enduring behavioral interdependence, repeated interactions, emotional...(Click for full definition.): I haven't even kissed, to be exact. My primary problem is that I am...
Sep 30, 2013
Relationship Advice
Hi, I have a stepson who lives with me and he's fourteen years old.  I have to admit that my relationship is not the greatest right now with him.  I've been his stepmother for most of his life but lately he's been getting really out of control.  My husband is a truck driver and is away and so most of the time it's just the two of us.  The neighbor girl ( who i dont trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose....
Sep 30, 2013
Relationship Advice
Hi, I have read many other posts but none relates directly to my problem as my husband insists he never had that "spark" for me.  My husband and I have been together 32 years, 27 years married.  It has been far from perfect since we come from different backgrounds and have disagreed more times than not.  The bottom line is that he announced that he wants a divorceDivorce is a legal dissolution of the marriage bond. Many couples divorce themselves from each other on an...
Sep 30, 2013
Sex Advice
I'm a 25 year old educated male. My girlfriend is a gorgeous 22 year old. We are madly in love and know that we will be spending the remainder of our lives together. We are generally very happy with our lives and our relationship. We compliment each other in every way. We have been together for 19 months. Initially her sex drive was very high and there was much experimentation and exploration of each others sexuality. She can generally orgasm within a few short minutes and she can sometimes...
Sep 21, 2013
Dating Advice
I've been seeing a guy for 3 months now. He lives in another country though, so it's not like we see each other every day. He's here for work regurlarly.  I'm 25 and he's 36. I've had commitmentFear of commitment is a common source of conflict for couples. Commitmentphobia is often most strongly apparent in romantic life. Generally, commitmentphobic people claim that they are eager to find...(Click for full definition.) issuesIssues, in the words of the Serenity Prayer, are things you can...
Sep 21, 2013
Relationship Advice
Hello i need help ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months now. I found out this week that he’s been texting a 14 year old hes 32 years old. I know that this is very wrong. He says im over exaggerating and that even tho he has a girlfriend it wouldnt stop him from talking to people even thought he wouldnt. Im very confused i tried talking to him but he doesnt listen. Now every time hes on his phone i think hes texting other people. Am i overreacting? Im really lost with all this. Help me,...
Sep 21, 2013
Relationship Advice
Hi Dr. Love, I will try to make it short. I started seeing a guy 4 years ago and then he had a girlfriend so he just had me for sex, but I really fell hard for this guy and did all crazy stuff to make him like me. Then his girlfriend found out that he was seeing me behind her back and she broke up with him. After that we have talked almost constantly for 4 years and has seen eachother at partys and stuff, but he has still just played me all along. But this spring something happened and he...
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