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Relationship Advice

This page lists all my latest advice columns in all categories.

There are three main categories of advice. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in that category:

Relationships Dating Sex

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Feb 17, 2015
Relationship Advice
I am 23 and I have been married for 1 and 1/2 years. seven years ago when I was in high school I fell for a guy from my church (not my husband). we were a fling for a while but never amounted to a relationship (I kinda ended things with him when he was in the army after he graduated high school - he is 2 years older than me). we never lost contact and would occasionally see each other in groups of our church friends. i never got over him or could stop thinking of him. one day 2 years ago (in...
Feb 17, 2015
Dating Advice
Hey! I'm in high school and there is this boy I've been liking since November! We have been texting for about 4 months now! I know he likes me and he knows I like him! We really click and we can have conversations for hours over the phone! One problem we have......we have only hung out once and it was in a group setting!!! I know he is a VERY shy guy but still..... I ask if he wants to hang out and he always want to but when the time gets close to us hanging out he backs out last minute. For...
Feb 17, 2015
Sex Advice
Hi Dr Love I just met a guy and he is lovely but straight away he confided he is turned on by urination, Im not disgusted by this but im also not turned on by it and I get the impression that it is the only thing that can get him off, he more or less admited that. Sex is very important to me and I feel like his fantasy is very limiting if he cant get off on my body alone or other things apart from urination, am I wasting my time seeing him again do you think this is something that he cant...
Jan 21, 2015
Dating Advice
I have been on my own for about 18yrs i had two great loves in my life both ended not on a good note. I feel that i am unable to find someone. there is nobody i am intrested in i feel like something is missing in me, i don"t feel lonely or wishing i had someone i am ok on my own but it would be nice to have somebody that loved me or me love them, or am i ment to spend my days partner less. any advice would be great something i can do becasue i feel its my fault thank you
Jan 21, 2015
Relationship Advice
On one of your articles you said that the only thing you should say by text or email to your ex is this  "I've been thinking it over and I'm beginning to realize why you were so unhappy with me and felt that breaking upBreaking up refers to the dissolution of a romantic love relationship. Many people have a tendency to break up in order to preempt or discharge unwanted or painful feelings. For example, if you are...(Click for full definition.) was the only answer".  Then you go to no...
Jan 19, 2015
Relationship Advice
Dear Dr. Love, My father died suddenly when I was a little girl age 7. Since then I sometimes feel he is guiding me but I question it and feel I am making it up. I am age 65 now and would like so much to know it is really him talking to me because I miss him so much. Right now I especially would like to connect with him because I just lost my job and have some health challengesChallenges are, in the words of the Serendipity prayer, "things you cannot change". The challenge is to have a joyful...
Nov 19, 2014
Dating Advice
I am not entirely sure this is the same Dr. Love, but I believe I posted a question for Dr. Love when I was 16 years old about a girl I had a serious crush on when I was in high school and remember receiving a reply, for which I'd like to say thank you.  I am currently 27, about to finish my Masters in engineering, and unable to meet women. I am very much inexperienced having only ever had one date with one girl when I was 20, and then I met a woman when I was 21 whom I saw and...
Oct 21, 2014
Relationship Advice
In 1997 I was drugged then raped by both males and females, publicly and captured on people's mobiles. This was then shared throughout my town. This attracted unwelcome attention from males which included another similar event in 2008.Sadly the people responsible were care workers and "friends"and sinceI had no memories of the events. I have been slandered,lied about and sexually abused.No-one believes me and my partnerdoesn't either and says I have destroyed his life What can I do when he...
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