Dating Advice

“Since 1995, Dr. Turndorf (aka Dr. Love) has been personally answering your dating, relationship and sex questions. Her Advice Archives are the world's first searchable relationship advice database containing thousands of answers that she's posted over the past 20 years! Search her archives to learn, heal and grow by reading the answers she's given to  questions just like yours.

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2) Read her latest memoir/self-help Hay House book Love Never Dies: How to Reconnect and Make Peace with the Deceased. This book shares her own eternal love story, and shows you how to reconnect and make peace with those in spirit.

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Relationship Advice

This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.

There are three main categories of advice. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in other categories:


Dating Advice

This page lists all advice columns in the Dating Advice category.

There are three main categories of advice. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in other categories:

Relationships Sex

If you don't find the answer you're looking for in these advice columns, feel free to Ask Doctor Love your own question!

Feb 17, 2015
Dating Advice
Hey! I'm in high school and there is this boy I've been liking since November! We have been texting for about 4 months now! I know he likes me and he knows I like him! We really click and we can have conversations for hours over the phone! One problem we have......we have only hung out once and it was in a group setting!!! I know he is a VERY shy guy but still..... I ask if he wants to hang out and he always want to but when the time gets close to us hanging out he backs out last minute. For...
Jan 21, 2015
Dating Advice
I have been on my own for about 18yrs i had two great loves in my life both ended not on a good note. I feel that i am unable to find someone. there is nobody i am intrested in i feel like something is missing in me, i don"t feel lonely or wishing i had someone i am ok on my own but it would be nice to have somebody that loved me or me love them, or am i ment to spend my days partner less. any advice would be great something i can do becasue i feel its my fault thank you
Nov 19, 2014
Dating Advice
I am not entirely sure this is the same Dr. Love, but I believe I posted a question for Dr. Love when I was 16 years old about a girl I had a serious crush on when I was in high school and remember receiving a reply, for which I'd like to say thank you.  I am currently 27, about to finish my Masters in engineering, and unable to meet women. I am very much inexperienced having only ever had one date with one girl when I was 20, and then I met a woman when I was 21 whom I saw and...
Jul 6, 2014
Dating Advice
Hello So I recently met someone while on vacation the story begins like this I saw this woman from across the bar and I immediately knew we were from the same city, I went over and asked her if she was from said city and she said yes. We were hitting it off very well in even having the same birthday and the same mundane interests. For the next three days we spent every minute together prompting her sister to say I've never seen her this happy. We are both in our 30 ' and professional, Leading...
Apr 21, 2014
Dating Advice
I have a girlfriend whom I love and I have another girlfriend whom I love too. How should I choose which one should I go for? It's kinda difficult since I love them both equally and with pure heart. I want to have them both but practically it's next to impossible. So please enlighten me how to find peace of mind since I can't afford to lose both or even one for that matter!! Thanks  
Mar 25, 2014
Dating Advice
I am romantically involved with a much younger woman. She does not seem to worry about our age difference, but I do. Every thing else being equal, at what point should a couple be really concerned? 20 years difference? 30 years? 40 years? 50 years? Any advice??
Mar 2, 2014
Dating Advice
Hello Dr. I truly need your advice! There is a very attractive boy in my Poetry class, I recognized him the first day from a party I was at. Where he (according to my friends) was looking at me, but made a strange comment referring to my clothes... I'm not exactly sure what he said, but I do know it wasn't a nice comment. So, first day of class he sat beside me and I could see him looking at me like he recognized me. Second class, he sat as far away from me as he possibly could. For...
Nov 4, 2013
Dating Advice
Dear Dr. Love! There’s so much I want to tell you, and many times that I’ve wanted to write you, so finally, here it goes. I’ll start off by saying that I love you so much, and there are so many times that I think “wow, she’s almost like a kind of soul mate but we’ve never even met!” I think it’s amazing the way you help people, and you are one of the things that inspired me to get into counselling for youth. I’ve been listening to your show for over a year now, I’ve listened to every show, and...
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