My boyfriend and I have been dating now 9 months.
Last week, he had off work one day so I had asked him if he would like to go to lunch with me that day. He told me that he had already made lunch plans with someone else. When I had asked him who, he said his ex!
Now, he said that he wasn't going to tell me because he didn't know how I would react to him going out with her. I would have been really mad if I had found out afterward that he had gone to lunch with her without telling me, but I told him that I was fine with it, that it was ok that he go.
I do, however, feel nervous about all of that because he has told me that he still has feelings for her and she still has feelings for him. She has another boyfriend now, and he tells me every day that he loves me and that him and his ex will never get back together.
What do you think that my boyfriend going to lunch with his ex and not wanting to tell me about it means?