I just wanted to say that I'm a big fan, you're fabulous. I have a question for you, i don't know maybe if you can answer this question or not but I'll give it a shot-I have been with my boyfriend for approximately 1 year and 8 months.
He is Christian and I am Roman Catholic. Never before did he ever say he had a problem with the fact that were both from different religions. We were engaged last September and it seemed like we were both already considering our lives together ahead.
Now just very recently he came to me with some problems; I want to go to a fashion design school in LA. Were both attending college in AZ right now but I'll be done in December and he'll be done in two years. Before when we talked he always said he would follow me wherever I went now he says he wants me to stay in AZ with him until he finishes college.
Not only is this the problem but now he says my religion is a problem for him. He told me what are we going to teach our kids? and I said you knew my religious status from day one, why is it now you're telling me this? and he says it's because now he is thinking things over very seriously now because were almost adults now and were in college.
Don't get me wrong, I think religion is very important for our future kids' but I also told him that we could incorporate both religions. He told me that he wanted me to change and become a christian, but I told him no I wasn't going to change because he has to accept me the way I am and that means to except everything and that I wasn't going to change for any man no matter how much I love him.
I do love him, I would do anything for him. He said he dosen't want me to change for him but for myself. I don't know what to do as far as LA and the religion thing. What do you take of this situation? I would so much appreciate some input. Thanks Dr. Love in advance. Your fan. . .