I am not the best looking guy in the world. I know this and to be honest I am comfortable with it. I am a 23 year old that is about 5'10' and I am about 305 pounds. However I do have a good sense of humor and I am outgoing.
I recently found a lady who I really thought might like me. Not being very experienced with this whole dating thing, three dates in the last five years, I was really dumb to the whole flirting game. I finally realized it, with help from my brother. We've seen each other mainly as friends for the past few weeks because of her age, she's 18. We thought it would be best to keep our relationship as friends and have something come out of that. Through my friendship with her I have gotten to know her even better. I really do love her.
However I have noticed that she is friendly with another guy. He is engaged to be married but she considers him to be her best friend and has romantic thoughts about him. He has told her that if it wasn't for him meeting his current girl friend he would have gone out with her. This obviously didn't help things much on her thoughts towards him.
I care a lot for this girl but it seems I am only noticed when he isn't around. I really don't know what I should do. Should I talk with her about it and maybe ruin a chance of getting together with her later or should I try to be the friend she needs? I have been a good friend to her as she has been to me but I don't know how much longer I can take it. Everytime I see her go over to him I feel like I'm getting a knife in my heart and someones turning it. Should I just move on and keep her as a friend or what? Please help me...