Ask Dr. Love A Question

I wish that I could answer every question that I receive. But I'm only one person with a very busy clinical practice and media schedule!

As a community service, I randomly select 3 questions per week to answer for free. I post my answers each week in my online column, generally before the broadcast of my radio show.




1) Search my Advice Archives: My Archives are the world's first searchable relationship advice database containing thousands of answers that I've posted over the past 17 years! You can learn, heal and grow just by reading the answers I've given to questions just like yours. 

2) Read my new Hay House book Kiss Your Fights Good-bye: Dr. Love's 10 Simple Steps to Cooling Conflict and Rekindling Your Relationship.

This book is your relationship bible. It has helped countless couples go from conflict to connection. My method works even if only one of the partners reads the book and puts my step in place. My method also guides you to resolve conflicts with friends, family members and even co-workers.

3) Listen to My Radio Show: My show airs each Tuesday from 1-2 pm EST. Each week, I address a different relationship topic and take live calls. Thousands of people listen to the show after it airs, but if you wish to speak with me live, you can call in anonymously or you can submit me a question that you'd like me to answer anonymously on air

4) Private Consulting with Me: If you would like to consult with me by phone, email or Skype, feel free to reach out to me in my private consulting division using the dropdown menu on the top of this page. Private consults are fee for service.


Question Submission Guidelines and Terms:

1) You must be a registered and logged in member of the site to submit your question.

2) All questions submitted to the Free Advice column are eligible for publishing on this Web site. If you do not want your question and its answer published on this site, do not submit a question to the Free Advice column using this form. Private consultations not published on this site must be paid for and are not submitted through this location. Private paid consultations may be done by phone or by email.

3) Not all questions are answered and published: your question may or may not be chosen. Questions are also not answered immediately, but are reviewed and published at minimum within a week. However, if your question is chosen and answered, you will receive a brief notification at the email address you registered on this site with. 

4) All published submissions are anonymous and use an alias: no personal information is publicly divulged on this site, and we cannot and will not reveal personal information regarding any site members or authors of questions to any third party unless required by a court order (which has never happened in 16+ years, but legally we have to say that...). reserves all rights to all content published on this site.

Since you must be a registered and logged in member to submit a question, you now have three choices:

I welcome your submissions and look forward to helping you!

- Dr. Jamie Turndorf


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